Lord give me strength

The potentially-nasty meeting, where the person who isn't "living up to standards" (according to another person) will be confronted is in five minutes.

I am telling myself, over and over again: mouth shut, ears open. You may learn something valuable this hour. And I'm also reminding myself: this is not a class you teach nor have you ever taught. Your opinion is not significant and offering it will only prolong the horror.